People, Abuse, and Relationships. Reblog if You Have a Heart.
It has come to my attention that people can be real ass holes. Now to add onto this I could rant on about my life and how the school systems and people around me mentally abused me and then told me I had to rely on drugs for the rest of my life because I was ADD and ADHD. But I’ll be nice and leave my life story out this. So Human Society just loves to torment each other, whether it be through empty and abusive relationships, or cyber bullying. But I want to focus on one subject and that’s Abusive Relationships. Through watching and conversing I have found that this can be one of the most tormenting things to put a person through, Why? Because it drives one of the pair to their death if it isn’t stopped. Now most of you think “oh big whoop what does it matter if your getting beat up? Just go to the police.” Unfortunately its never that easy because this person is attached to his/her abuser. But an Abusive Relationship isn’t just endless beatings, its also mental trauma. This Trauma is caused by the abuser making the person feel Unwanted, Like Dirt, Not Good Enough, and also making them feel as though they aren’t to be considered human beings. I dealt with a case where the Abuser would cause problems by not saying anything and throwing TANTRUMS when what they thought they deserved was not given to them, this only leads the abused to think they can not fulfill the abuser’s needs thus making them unworthy of this person as a “partner”. Running off and crying simply states that the Abuser fits the profile of what I like to call “The Cry Some Get Some Type” this type of person needs to really evaluate their situation before doing this to get what they want, however this does not always work and only depresses the one whom is being abused in this way which may lead to suicidal tendencies. I have delt with a similar type of relationship twice, once for my self and once from a friend. I am simply asking that if you know someone who suffers this kind of abuse speak out and try and save a life.
